Dating Chat Coach Agent Skill

Guides men through online dating conversations, icebreakers, message drafting, and transitioning smoothly to in-person dates.

Context cost
6.2k tokensestimated from the bundle, loaded when it triggers
Bundle
3 files · 24.7 kBtext throughout, nothing executable
Licence
MITthe author’s own terms
Last change
—no release on file
Servers it uses
Noneruns standalone

What it does

Use when 用户咨询和异性(相亲对象/网上认识的人)线上聊天的任何问题——怎么开场破冰、怎么接话回消息、帮忙起草或润色要发的消息、什么时候加微信/转微信、什么时候约见面怎么约、对方回复冷淡/已读不回/聊天冷场怎么办、判断对方有没有兴趣、识别假号骗局、见面安全等场景。关键词:相亲、脱单、约会、加微信、约见面、她说、怎么回、聊天、女生、破冰。

What this skill changes about the agent has not been set out here as a list. Its SKILL.md, shown below, says it in the author’s own words.

The skill itself

A skill is instructions the model reads, so you can see what you are getting: below is the start of its SKILL.md. The front matter loads with every session, the body loads when the skill triggers, and the whole file comes with the install.

SKILL.md4.2 kB · preview
--- name: dating-chat-coach ---
6# 线上聊天教练(男生版)
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8## 概述
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10基于《线上聊天手册·男生版 v4》(作者 ZHOUYI1028)沉淀。给零经验男生的异性聊天全流程指南:熟人介绍(相亲)和网上认识两套打法。
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12**三条核心原则(凌驾于一切话术之上):**
131. **线上聊天只有一个目的:把人顺利约到线下见面。** 聊得再热闹不见面都是空中楼阁,线上热度有保质期。
142. **真诚 > 话术。** 所有技巧服务于"让真实的你被看见",不是帮你装成另一个人。不需要推拉、忽冷忽热那套。
153. **你是在筛,不是在求。** 需求感(秒回、连发、句句迎合、她一冷淡就慌)是头号死因。自检:这条消息是分享还是讨好?是讨好就删了重写。但不卑≠变傲,不讨好≠高冷装酷。
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17## 回答用户问题前,先定位场景
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19| 用户的问题 | 查 reference.md 对应章节 |
20|---|---|
21| 相亲加了微信怎么开场/前几天聊什么 | §2 熟人介绍全流程 |
22| 网上认识的怎么私信/怎么聊/怎么转微信 | §3 网上认识全流程 |
23| 她说了 X 我怎么回 / 帮我起草消息 | §5 接话公式 + §9 接话示范速查 |
24| 对方冷淡/已读不回/冷场/不愿见面 | §7 常见问题急救 + §2 判断兴趣信号 |
This is a preview of SKILL.md. Download or install the skill to get the whole thing.
In the file
SKILL.md168 words
Files3
LicenceMIT
Why you can read it

Nothing in a skill executes. The client loads the text and the model follows it, so a skill can be audited the way a runbook is — by reading it.

What it costs in context

Skills are not billed by the call. They are paid for in context: every token the instructions occupy is a token your code, your diff and your conversation cannot use. Here is what this one takes and when it takes it.

≈50
always loaded
The name and description, so the model knows the skill exists and when to reach for it.
6,125
on trigger
The instruction body and 2 supporting files, read only when the skill fires.
3.1%
of a 200k window
Ten skills this size would take about 31% of the window before you open a file.
050k100k150k200k context window

6.2k tokens, estimated from the bundle at four bytes to the token, held for the rest of the session once it triggers. Heavy. Teams tend to install this one per project rather than globally, and load it only when the job comes up.

Servers bill, skills cost

A server charges by the month. A skill charges once per session, in context, and then keeps charging it for as long as the session lives.

Before and after

The same question, put to the same model twice: once as it comes, and once with these instructions loaded.

No worked example has been published for this skill yet.

The procedure it runs

The procedure has not been set out here step by step. It is in the body of its SKILL.md: the start of it is shown above, and the whole file comes with the install.

Prose, not code

These steps are written for a model to follow, not executed by a runtime. It can still be told to skip one, and it will say so when it does.

Servers it uses

None. This skill calls no MCP servers at all.

Everything it needs is in the instructions, so it works in a project with nothing connected — the model reads the file and changes how it works with what it can already reach.

Its SKILL.md does not declare which tools it asks the agent for, so what it touches is whatever the instructions themselves ask for — read them before you install it.

What it asks for
Writes filesnot declared
Network accessnot declared

This SKILL.md carries no allowed-tools line, so neither is declared. A skill grants no permissions of its own — it can only ask for tools your client already has.

What it will not do

Every skill is narrow, and the useful ones say where they stop. These are the jobs this one is the wrong tool for.

What this skill is not for has not been published here. Nothing is implied by that: it is a section the author has not filled in.

What is in the bundle

3 files, 24.7 kB on disk. A bundle is text throughout: the instructions the model reads, plus the templates it fills in.

  • SKILL.md4.2 kB
  • README.md1.7 kB
  • reference.md18.8 kB
What is not in it

No dependencies and nothing executable: a skill is text the agent reads, so the bundle is 3 files you can review in full before installing. The MIT licence covers the templates and examples as well as the instructions.

Install

Installing copies the bundle into your project. Nothing runs at install time — the files sit on disk until the model reads them.

# Dating Chat Coach · 6.2k tokens when loaded · macOS, Linux mkdir -p .claude/skills && t=$(mktemp -d) && curl -fsSL -o "$t/bundle.tar.gz" https://mcprush.com/api/skills/dating-chat-coach/bundle.tar.gz && tar -xzf "$t/bundle.tar.gz" -C "$t" && [ -d "$t/dating-chat-coach" ] && { [ ! -e .claude/skills/dating-chat-coach ] || { mv .claude/skills/dating-chat-coach "$t/.previous" && echo "Previous copy moved to $t/.previous"; }; } && mv "$t/dating-chat-coach" .claude/skills/ && echo "Installed .claude/skills/dating-chat-coach"
On Windows, or any OS with Node 20+
npx mcprush@latest skill add zhangs-11/dating-chat-coach

Windows PowerShell says 'running scripts is disabled on this system'? Run Set-ExecutionPolicy -Scope CurrentUser RemoteSigned once, or type npx.cmd instead of npx (codex.cmd, gemini.cmd, grok.cmd likewise). PowerShell 7 needs neither. Writes to .claude/skills/dating-chat-coach/ in the current project. For every project instead, run mkdir -p ~/.claude/skills && t=$(mktemp -d) && curl -fsSL -o "$t/bundle.tar.gz" https://mcprush.com/api/skills/dating-chat-coach/bundle.tar.gz && tar -xzf "$t/bundle.tar.gz" -C "$t" && [ -d "$t/dating-chat-coach" ] && { [ ! -e ~/.claude/skills/dating-chat-coach ] || { mv ~/.claude/skills/dating-chat-coach "$t/.previous" && echo "Previous copy moved to $t/.previous"; }; } && mv "$t/dating-chat-coach" ~/.claude/skills/ && echo "Installed ~/.claude/skills/dating-chat-coach" (macOS, Linux) — or add --global to the npx line. The curl line replaces .claude/skills/dating-chat-coach/ only after the download succeeds, so files left there by another skill of the same name, or by an older release, do not mix in. A copy already there is moved aside, not deleted, and the line prints where.

Which clients pick it up on their own

A skill is a folder of text. Most of these read a skills folder and pick it up without being told; the rest take the same folder another way — an upload in the app, a parameter on an API call — and then choose it by its description just the same.

Claude Code.claude/skills/
Claude DesktopCustomize › Skills
ChatGPTSkills › Create › Upload
Cursor.cursor/skills/
VS Code.github/skills/
Codex CLI.agents/skills/
Gemini CLI.gemini/skills/
Grok Build.grok/skills/
Microsoft CopilotSkills › Upload a skill
PerplexityComputer › Skills › Upload a skill
DeepSeek Harness.dsh/skills/
Zed.agents/skills/
Devin Desktop.devin/skills/
Windsurf (legacy).windsurf/skills/
OpenAI Agents SDKInstructions or sandbox Skills
HTTP / APIa request parameter
This release
Versionnot versioned
Publishedno release date on file
PriceFree
Referencezhangs-11/dating-chat-coach

Versions

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